Thank you all for the prayers, well wishes, and healing energies… Jess and I have been blessed and held in your love. We’ve both felt completely supported by this grace and it has been doubly wonderful to be so aware of it all.
Wednesday was a very long day, and one that we are grateful to have gone so well, and also grateful that it is now over.
9:30am Surgery Check-In Time
11:00am Radiology Appointment
12:30pm Nuclear Medicine Appointment
This surgery usually takes an hour. Recovery time is one to four hours. Then Jess gets to take me home.
When it first sunk in that I really have cancer, all sorts of resources, both physical and metaphysical, came to mind for how to best support this process. Some of them I’m doing, and others, not so much. But it feels a little like I just added “Go through breast cancer” to an already over-full TO DO list. Most of the rest of my life hasn’t changed… I’m still doing everything I was doing before. Why wouldn’t I? I actually feel fine. I realize that will likely change with the surgery next week, but up to this point or that day, I plan to go on feeling good.
My surgery is scheduled for Tuesday, October 29 at Thornton Hospital. The pre-op appointment is the previous Friday, October 25. Thankfully, all of the places I need to go are right there at the Moores Cancer Center and the hospital is on the other side of the parking lot.
Now that there is a definite date, I feel a certain relief. There is a written plan for my physical process through this journey now in the binder I set up (surprise! My organizing gene kicked in.) to keep track of all this stuff. I realize now that the binder was/is a very necessary tool. I have a quote from Mike Dooley speaking as The Universe www.tut.com on the cover. It reads:
Jess and I met with Dr. Sarah L. Blair of University of California – San Diego (UCSD) Moores Cancer Center on October 10. It was supposed to be an hour-long consult, but it turned into four hours as Dr. Blair, who was my second opinion consult, wanted my mammograms and ultrasounds redone. Apparently, my first films showed the two masses in two separate places, different from what I was told. Also, they use the films to measure the size and placement of the tumors, using those measurements for where to make the incision to find them in the breast tissue – we are actually talking about a relatively small group of cancer cells, a little like looking for the proverbial needle in a haystack. The new films did show the tumors differently than the first set. Both tumors are much smaller than the small hematoma left behind by the needle biopsy. Altogether, both tumors and safety margins are less than 2 centimeters in diameter. That’s about the size of a shelled peanut. Which was a huge relief, because the first doctor had offered me a choice of a full mastectomy or a partial, and that had me thinking I might be losing a lot more of me than I had originally thought. Now that we’ve acquired a lot of reading material on the subject of breast cancer, we’ve got a context to place the terminology in.
The diagnosis of cancer is initially not very straight-forward or clear until after surgery. That’s when the doctor can actually see it and the pathologist tests the tissue the doctor removed. My current diagnosis is Invasive and Ductal Carcinoma in Situ (DCIS).
All DCIS is considered stage 0 cancer – the earliest stage possible. “Stage” describes how far the cancer has spread beyond the site of the original tumor. Even though DCIS is always considered stage 0, it can be any size and be located in any number of areas inside the breast.
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